It's Not Passivity, It's Power.
- Fantanesh Attomsa
- Mar 21
- 2 min read
"You're so quiet." "You always go with the flow." "It's like you never get upset."
These are just a few of the comments I've heard over the years. For a long time, I believed these things about myself. I allowed these external perceptions to create a narrative that I was somehow passive, easily swayed, or lacking in strong opinions. But the truth is, nothing could be further from reality.
I am not passive. Or a pushover. Or shy, timid, introverted, people-pleasing, easily manipulated, or easily pressured. I do not avoid conflict, nor do I lack strong opinions. I am not weak, overly accommodating, or vulnerable.
However, I have always been someone with high Emotional Intelligence (E.I.), and there's a world of difference.
I've seen countless instances where E.I. misconstrued as weakness. It's as if having a deep understanding of emotions, both my own and those of others, is somehow a deficit. But it's my superpower.
I'm confident. Motivated. Inspired. Observant. I maintain my boundaries. I communicate thoughtfully. I'm at peace. I respond, not react. I make informed decisions. I don't let others influence my emotions. I'm self-aware, self-regulated, adaptable, and empowered.
My inner voice is clear: I am not defined by the assumptions of others. My ability to navigate complex emotional landscapes unphased is a testament to my strength, not a sign of weakness.
When you see me listening, it's not passivity.
It's observation. It's gathering information, understanding the dynamics at play. When I choose to respond calmly, it's not because I lack passion; it's because I choose to express it with intention and clarity.
Having high E.I. means I understand the power of my emotions and how to manage them effectively. It means I can build genuine connections, navigate difficult conversations, and create a harmonious environment around me. It means I can stand firm in my values while remaining open to understanding different perspectives.
It's about being empowered, not overpowered. It's about being in control, not controlled.
If you've ever felt underestimated because of your own emotional intelligence, if you're ready to embrace your power and learn to harness your emotional strength, I invite you to join me.
Today is the last day to register for next week's Masterclass: Developing Emotional Intelligence.
Join us for an empowering session on March 26th from 6:30 PM to 8:30 PM. For just $50, you'll receive a comprehensive workbook and learn practical strategies to:
* Manage your emotions with confidence.
* Practice setting healthy boundaries.
* Align your decisions and actions with your values.
* Build stronger, more meaningful relationships.
Emotional intelligence is a highly valuable and sought after skill. Don't let misconceptions hold you back. Embrace emotional mastery and step into your power today.
Register now before our portal closes - I look forward to seeing you there!
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